married....

[jhempstead]

Sometimes I HATE being married! Me and the wife get along good. (most of the time) But sometimes it kills me to not be able to play the field. Just today I walked into a store and immidietly a chick made eye contact with me and we started talking. The whole time I knew that I was in all I had to do was ask her out, BUT.... I'm fucking married!!!! :furious3: so that brings me to my question, any of you ever cheat?

[svt2srt4]

yeah it hurts when she finds out...for example i cheated on my wife with her so called friend and she punches me in the face while i am sleeping, i call the cops, they come and they take me to jail even though she admitted fault so i sat in jail for 4 days and when i get out i find out i lost my job, and she ws kicking me out, and if that isnt bad enough my car got towed and i couldn't afford the impound charges....moral of the story if you want to play the field get a divorce or hope you are really lucky and really smooth and hope to not get caught...

[SassySRT]

My advice is dont cheat, we will always find out.

[svt2srt4]

My advice is dont cheat, we will always find out.
Great where were you when i needed to know....lol:furious3:

[SassySRT]

Great where were you when i needed to know....lol:furious3:


You were thinking with your penis sweetie. :ftard:

[Alec Trevelyan]

Dude im not married but ive cheated on NUMEROUS broads! Just be REAL smooth about it cuz im assuming your doing good in life and you dont have a pre-nup aggrement.....and for the love of god if you are going to cheat.....be upfront with the girl and let her know your marrried and DONT FUCK YOUR WIFES FRIENDS!!! I dont care if your wifes friend looks like a model....DONT DO IT!!

Good luck!
:thumb:

[svt2srt4]

You were thinking with your penis sweetie. :ftard:
i do most of my thinking with my penis ...thats what makes me such a cool dude:thumb:

[SassySRT]

i do most of my thinking with my penis ...thats what makes me such a cool dude:thumb:


Ok who lied and told you, you were cool?


:rofl: :rofl: :rofl:

[Alec Trevelyan]

I love thinking with my lil head sometimes.....hes got ideas! But if your married you have alot to lose by getting busted.....try to get your wife into swinging or being Bi sexual or something it worth a shot.....:dunno:

[svt2srt4]

I love thinking with my lil head sometimes.....hes got ideas! But if your married you have alot to lose by getting busted.....try to get your wife into swinging or being Bi sexual or something it worth a shot.....:dunno:
I was going to suggest that too. Find a cute girl that likes girls and have her meet your wife don't push the moment just see if the magic happens and if you can join or at least watch and maybe video tape for use at a later date...but yeah i tried that route before i cheated on my wife and she actually was kissing the girl but it didnt go any further....

[punkrokdood]

i don't cheat, but its jsut a personal choice... HOWEVER, i'm rarely in a commited relationship long enough to cheat :ftard:

[marc04]

you wouldn't like it if she did it to you..just be honest it'll be alot easier trust me i know.sooner or later the truth always comes out.so think about it this way is it worth losing your wife over and if it is maybe you shouldn't be married just my .02c

[gspeedaddict]

as lons as you listen to smooth operator while youre doing it its ok...tell em gspeed said so gspeed 3:16

[Broken5hift]

if you feel the need to cheat you honestly shouldnt be married. I thought really long and hard about this before i proposed to my girl. the fact is, you can sleep with a girl and get a high off it but in the end a vagina is a vagina. with a wife you have someone you enjoy spending time with and love. I dont mind having someone that wants to have sex whenever i want too. even if its the same person. it probably helps that she's hot........... regardless though, if you honestly think you would cheat its time to be honest with your woman and get a divorce, or hope shes into swinging. imagine if she was riding some other guy, you'd be pissed as hell. i know i would. I replaced the thrill of getting a girl with working on cars. making a car fast can be just as addicting, only without the money shot.... unless your putting down 400+ whp then you might cream yourself alittle.

[neonsohc]

if you feel the need to cheat you honestly shouldnt be married. I thought really long and hard about this before i proposed to my girl. the fact is, you can sleep with a girl and get a high off it but in the end a vagina is a vagina. with a wife you have someone you enjoy spending time with and love. I dont mind having someone that wants to have sex whenever i want too. even if its the same person. it probably helps that she's hot........... regardless though, if you honestly think you would cheat its time to be honest with your woman and get a divorce, or hope shes into swinging. imagine if she was riding some other guy, you'd be pissed as hell. i know i would. I replaced the thrill of getting a girl with working on cars. making a car fast can be just as addicting, only without the money shot.... unless your putting down 400+ whp then you might cream yourself alittle.

i agree witht his statement here. dude you married her, you said yes and now you are committed. either get a divorce or be a man and stay true to your wife. imagine if you do this and you end up having kids with her and she finds out then. then you are really fucked man. use your other brain a little bit more thant he little guy.

stick with the wonderful line, look but dont touch. or just start watchign some porn.

[gudeman00]

I've never cheated on anyone. The last girl I was with for over 2 years, and she just recently broke up with me. I still am not going to do anything with other girls because I want to get back with her. She just tells me that she is tryign to figure out if I'm the one she wants to be with for the rest of her life, so she will have to go on a date with someone else to figure it out. Sucks for me.

[Broken5hift]

I've never cheated on anyone. The last girl I was with for over 2 years, and she just recently broke up with me. I still am not going to do anything with other girls because I want to get back with her. She just tells me that she is tryign to figure out if I'm the one she wants to be with for the rest of her life, so she will have to go on a date with someone else to figure it out. Sucks for me.

damn that really sucks bro.

this happened to my friend and the bitch never came back. get on with your life bro, she shouldnt be the only one having fun

[gudeman00]

damn that really sucks bro.

this happened to my friend and the bitch never came back. get on with your life bro, she shouldnt be the only one having fun

Thing is, she isn't really out having any fun. She hasn't even done anything. I'm trying so hard to not call her or not ask her to come over and visit but I just end up doing it anyway.

[neonsohc]

I've never cheated on anyone. The last girl I was with for over 2 years, and she just recently broke up with me. I still am not going to do anything with other girls because I want to get back with her. She just tells me that she is tryign to figure out if I'm the one she wants to be with for the rest of her life, so she will have to go on a date with someone else to figure it out. Sucks for me.

dude for your sake please dont wait around for her. save yourself the possible agony and dont wait. my girl and i broke up after a year and half. i went on a bunch of dates and slept with a bunch of girls. i wanted my girl so bad but i wasnt going to let that make me suffer. after about 5 months my girl comes back to me and we have been back together for over a year now. if its meant to be she will come back but dont wait. enjoy your life.

and just remember it was her fault that caused this in case she ever gets mad you slept with other girls. i know my girl got mad at me for that but i set her straight.

[Hitman]

She just tells me that she is tryign to figure out if I'm the one she wants to be with for the rest of her life, so she will have to go on a date with someone else to figure it out. Sucks for me.

I've been there man, the above statement in girl talk (ages 18-22) means she wants to bang other guys. Other excuses that mean this same thing are: "I want to find myself", "We're too serious", "I think we need a break", "I need more space". If she comes back, that's great, but I wouldn't put your life on hold. Get back in the game.

As for cheating, you have to answer one question before you get married, "Is this the person the one I want to devote myself to for the rest of my life?". If the answer is no, then don't get married and play the field. If you're considering cheating, it's alot easier to be honest, get a divorce and go your separate ways than your wife finding out and draining your bank account, torching your car and chopping off your manhood. :ftard:

[drizze99]

gude, you seriously need to move on with your life. I know it hurts like hell because I have been in your shoes. Waiting will get you no where and you'll wish you had all that time you wasted back. Let her do her "thing" and you do yours. The old saying is true... there are many fish in the sea.

[gudeman00]

I've been there man, the above statement in girl talk (ages 18-22) means she wants to bang other guys. Other excuses that mean this same thing are: "I want to find myself", "We're too serious", "I think we need a break", "I need more space". If she comes back, that's great, but I wouldn't put your life on hold. Get back in the game.



I understand that, but I'm not sure with her. She's always been honest with me and has straight up told me what she thinks. And if she goes out and bangs other guys, it's just goign to piss me off and make me not want to get back with her anyway. And it's tough to just "get back in the game" when for the past 2 years all I've done is hang out with her, plus I can't get into bars yet. Have to wait until May for that one.

[el_jefe]

She just tells me that she is tryign to figure out if I'm the one she wants to be with for the rest of her life, so she will have to go on a date with someone else to figure it out. Sucks for me.

I've been there man, the above statement in girl talk (ages 18-22) means she wants to bang other guys. Other excuses that mean this same thing are: "I want to find myself", "We're too serious", "I think we need a break", "I need more space". If she comes back, that's great, but I wouldn't put your life on hold. Get back in the game.

Yup, what he said. Go get some, it won't hurt you if the relattionship starts up again, and it might help bring her back sooner. Nothing makes a girl want you more than to see you with another girl. Crazy jealous bitches :rofl:

[zzz04pt]

My advice is dont cheat, we will always find out.

You think so huh?
:ftard:

[punkrokdood]

Nothing makes a girl want you more than to see you with another girl. Crazy jealous bitches :rofl:
:werd:

and marcus... i say do your thing man... you're still young, plenty of time to make mistakes, and plenty of time to learn from them. the "first" rarely ever lasts, but it always has the most profound effect on our life... I'd say be glad that you had a good overall experience with her, and jsut do what you gotta do, whatever that may be :thumb:

[svt2srt4]

Ok who lied and told you, you were cool?


:rofl: :rofl: :rofl:
i can believe i didnt see this last nite....ok...did i forfeit my chance for a come back or is there a exemption for not seeing it....i can't have a whore telling me im not cool....dammit man someone help here...my precious ego is crushed:furious3:

[gudeman00]

:werd:

and marcus... i say do your thing man... you're still young, plenty of time to make mistakes, and plenty of time to learn from them. the "first" rarely ever lasts, but it always has the most profound effect on our life... I'd say be glad that you had a good overall experience with her, and jsut do what you gotta do, whatever that may be :thumb:

haha. I know I'm young, and I've made too many mistakes in my life to make much more. And she's the second.

[punkrokdood]

haha. I know I'm young, and I've made too many mistakes in my life to make much more. And she's the second.
lol... by first i meant like serious... you know what i mean.... :lol:


and you can never make too many mistakes, its the easiest way to learn... cause and effect, action/reaction :thumb:

[gudeman00]

lol... by first i meant like serious... you know what i mean.... :lol:


and you can never make too many mistakes, its the easiest way to learn... cause and effect, action/reaction :thumb:

The first girl I had, we were in a 2 year relationship as well.

[el_jefe]

Just sing along with Ludacris. . . .

I've got ho's (I've got ho's)
In different area codes (areaaaaa codes)

[gudeman00]

Just sing along with Ludacris. . . .

I've got ho's (I've got ho's)
In different area codes (areaaaaa codes)

:rofl:

[el_jefe]

The first girl I had, we were in a 2 year relationship as well.


Then you need more one night stands!!!!!:thumb:

[SassySRT]

i can believe i didnt see this last nite....ok...did i forfeit my chance for a come back or is there a exemption for not seeing it....i can't have a whore telling me im not cool....dammit man someone help here...my precious ego is crushed:furious3:


Ok hurry up here is your chance for a come back.....

[punkrokdood]

Then you need more one night stands!!!!!:thumb:
i used to think that... it got old :lol: :yikes:

[drizze99]

This is getting some attention! :rofl:

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[punkrokdood]

Ok hurry up here is your chance to come on my back.....
:yikes: :yikes: :yikes: :yikes: :deal:

[svt2srt4]

Ok hurry up here is your chance for a come back.....
dammit woman i haven't come up with a come back yet...wait till i finish my coffee...and why is it your the only one that responded to my post....are waiting for the comeback:furious3:

[drizze99]

The first girl I had, we were in a 2 year relationship as well.

hmmmm.... sounds like "2" is your hump number. :thumb: :rofl:

[punkrokdood]

oh, and unless you want to know about short relationships, i'm pretty much out of advice :lol:

my longest was about 5 months... i've done that twice. my current g/f and i have been together for 3 months, so i'm on my way to breaking my record :ftard: :lol:

[el_jefe]

i used to think that... it got old :lol: :yikes:


Then do what I used to do and keep a "stable". I usually had 5 girls or so that I could call up to hang out with at any given time. Just depends on if you want a long term relationship or not.

[punkrokdood]

Then do what I used to do and keep a "stable". I usually had 5 girls or so that I could call up to hang out with at any given time. Just depends on if you want a long term relationship or not.
that got old too... but i didn't want a long term thing, but its honestly more exciting to me now than the 1 nighters/ booty call kind of things... i've tried jsut about everything i care to try, so i get bored easily... kinda fucks you up :ftard: :rofl:

[el_jefe]

that got old too... but i didn't want a long term thing, but its honestly more exciting to me now than the 1 nighters/ booty call kind of things... i've tried jsut about everything i care to try, so i get bored easily... kinda fucks you up :ftard: :rofl:

well, your just screwed then :jester:

Besides, we aren't talking about you, we are giving the kid advice.

[SassySRT]

dammit woman i haven't come up with a come back yet...wait till i finish my coffee...and why is it your the only one that responded to my post....are waiting for the comeback:furious3:


I only responded to amuse you. :rofl:

[punkrokdood]

well, your just screwed then :jester:

Besides, we aren't talking about you, we are giving the kid advice.
:rofl: :rofl: :rofl:

i was just lettin him know my background... since i've pretty much done the exact opposite of him. that way he knows where my thoughts are coming from, and he can decide if listening to me is a good idea or not :thumb:

[punkrokdood]

I only responded to amuse you. :rofl:
amusing men is your specialty

http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v651/punkrokdood/train.jpg

[svt2srt4]

I would like to come out and say i have giant hairy man balls and i have had a botched sex change my manboobs were enlarged by taking estrogen pills and the side effect is i'm a giant man whore that looks kinda like a chic....[.....
man it took me a while but i scraped this confession up:thumb: ...and yes it is childish but its the best i could muster up this early in the am:thumb:

[gudeman00]

:rofl: :rofl: :rofl:

i was just lettin him know my background... since i've pretty much done the exact opposite of him. that way he knows where my thoughts are coming from, and he can decide if listening to me is a good idea or not :thumb:

I'm listening to everyone and combining them with my own thoughts. I just need to talk to her about it the most.

[punkrokdood]

man it took me a while but i scraped this confession up:thumb: ...and yes it is childish but its the best i could muster up this early in the am:thumb:
:supergay:
one of the weakest ever... and you've had almost a full day to think of it:rofl:

[punkrokdood]

I'm listening to everyone and combining them with my own thoughts. I just need to talk to her about it the most.
i jsut wanted to be sure you know that my background is a LOT different (jsut ask amity:rofl: ) , so what i say may or may not be good for you :thumb:

[el_jefe]

I'm listening to everyone and combining them with my own thoughts. I just need to talk to her about it the most.


Ah, but does she feel the need to talk to you about it? It sounds as though you are more attached to her than she is to you. Go out on a couple of fun dates (don't worry about getting in the sack, these are just to get used to women again) and see if she calls you.

[SassySRT]

man it took me a while but i scraped this confession up:thumb: ...and yes it is childish but its the best i could muster up this early in the am:thumb:


WEAK!!!!

[svt2srt4]

:supergay:
one of the weakest ever... and you've had almost a full day to think of it:rofl:
dammit i didnt see her post till about 30 mins ago...and i know its weak but, she put me on the spot....and if that doesnt help i have a few more excuses:thumb:

[SassySRT]

Ah, but does she feel the need to talk to you about it? It sounds as though you are more attached to her than she is to you. Go out on a couple of fun dates (don't worry about getting in the sack, these are just to get used to women again) and see if she calls you.


I've givin pretty much the same advice. :thumb:

[gudeman00]

Ah, but does she feel the need to talk to you about it? It sounds as though you are more attached to her than she is to you. Go out on a couple of fun dates (don't worry about getting in the sack, these are just to get used to women again) and see if she calls you.

Yes, she talks to me about it. She came over last night. She tells me everything that she does, and tells me who she talks to and what not. She said she'll tell me if she goes on a date, as well. She still tells me she loves me and that she wants to be with me she just wants to make sure. She even just told me that she wants to take a trip to chicago or somewhere and stay in a hotel overnight and just have some fun, she said it would be good for us.

[svt2srt4]

WEAK!!!!
i know....*lowers head in shame*....i got beat by a girl:furious3:

[punkrokdood]

Yes, she talks to me about it. She came over last night. She tells me everything that she does, and tells me who she talks to and what not. She said she'll tell me if she goes on a date, as well. She still tells me she loves me and that she wants to be with me she just wants to make sure. She even just told me that she wants to take a trip to chicago or somewhere and stay in a hotel overnight and just have some fun, she said it would be good for us.
i do this... its called "pushing away"

sounds like she's scared of committment, yet really wants to be with you, but is scared of what that means... give it time and patience... how long have you guys been "broken up?" i can't remember

[el_jefe]

Yes, she talks to me about it. She came over last night. She tells me everything that she does, and tells me who she talks to and what not. She said she'll tell me if she goes on a date, as well. She still tells me she loves me and that she wants to be with me she just wants to make sure. She even just told me that she wants to take a trip to chicago or somewhere and stay in a hotel overnight and just have some fun, she said it would be good for us.

So, how is dating someone else going to "make sure" she wants to be with you? How old is she anyway?

[gudeman00]

i do this... its called "pushing away"

sounds like she's scared of committment, yet really wants to be with you, but is scared of what that means... give it time and patience... how long have you guys been "broken up?" i can't remember

Only like a month. she does say she wants to be with me and realizes how good I am to her, but just wants to make sure. I don't think she's scared of commitment, because all she ever used to talk about was getting married. She still does, actually. She's just confused as hell. I think it's the prozac.

[el_jefe]

i do this... its called "pushing away"

sounds like she's scared of committment, yet really wants to be with you, but is scared of what that means...

x2

[el_jefe]

I think it's the prozac.


Damn, you ain't even married to her and she is taking Prozac? Your screwed dude :lol:

[SassySRT]

Marcus, go out with some girls... have fun.... and make sure to tell her every lil detail!!


She's the one that wanted this lil break. She can have it.... while you go and have fun.

[el_jefe]

Marcus, go out with me... have fun.... and I'll make sure to tell her every lil detail!!


She's the one that wanted this lil break. She can have it.... while you go and have fun with me.


Fixed it for you.

[punkrokdood]

Fixed it for you.
:owned:

[gudeman00]

Marcus, go out with some girls... have fun.... and make sure to tell her every lil detail!!


She's the one that wanted this lil break. She can have it.... while you go and have fun.

Yeah, well actually I was the first one who wanted a break, cuz she was bitchign about everything. Then we got back together and it was great. then she broke up with me one dya out of nowhere. First she said we'd probably be back together by thanksgiving, then by christmas, now she says she doesn't think we will by then.

I'll go out and have fun, it's just it will take awhile to get back into it because I haven't really done it since I've been here at school. I'll at least have to wait until next semester starts to meet some new people to go have fun with. At least if we're stilll broken up next summer, I'll be 21 back in Illinois with my cousins, it will be a good time.... and thers a titty bar a mile from the golf course I'm a member at over there :thumb:

[svt2srt4]

Marcus, go out with some girls... have fun.... and make sure to tell her every lil detail!!


She's the one that wanted this lil break. She can have it.... while you go and have fun.
i second this but don't tell her yourself it will be felt more if a friend tells her...if you try to brag to her she will see right thru it and see it as being to desperate....IMO

[SassySRT]

Fixed it for you.

:ftard:

Thanks Jeff.

[punkrokdood]

Marcus, go out with some girls... have fun.... and make sure to tell her every lil detail!!


She's the one that wanted this lil break. She can have it.... while you go and have fun.
X's the mike factor

[gudeman00]

Damn, you ain't even married to her and she is taking Prozac? Your screwed dude :lol:

:rofl:
She got on that shit after we were on a tiny little one week break. Or two weeks. Same thing. She is one of those who worries hardcore about her schoolwork, plus she is in one of the best nursing schools in the state, so I can understand that. But she just won't admit that it has even a tiny bit to do with us right now.
Actually, yesterday she even said that she failed an exam, and she doesn't even care. It fucked her up with her schoolwork, but at least she doesn't worry about it lol. Now she just doesn't care.

[el_jefe]

:ftard:

Thanks Jeff.


Thats what I am here for :rofl:

[el_jefe]

:rofl:
She got on that shit after we were on a tiny little one week break. Or two weeks. Same thing. She is one of those who worries hardcore about her schoolwork, plus she is in one of the best nursing schools in the state, so I can understand that. But she just won't admit that it has even a tiny bit to do with us right now.
Actually, yesterday she even said that she failed an exam, and she doesn't even care. It fucked her up with her schoolwork, but at least she doesn't worry about it lol. Now she just doesn't care.


Heh. Better living through chemicals. :ftard: Maybe she can sue her doctor if she flunks out?

[punkrokdood]

i second this but don't tell her yourself it will be felt more if a friend tells her...if you try to brag to her she will see right thru it and see it as being to desperate....IMO
not bragging... jsut friendly... when they talk and she's like "so what did you do last night?"
"oh, i went out with (girl's name.) we did xxx at xxx for xxx. then i xxx in her xxx until she xxx like a xxx. i never xxx as much as xxx." :thumb:

[gudeman00]

not bragging... jsut friendly... when they talk and she's like "so what did you do last night?"
"oh, i went out with (girl's name.) we did xxx at xxx for xxx. then i xxx in her xxx until she xxx like a xxx. i never xxx as much as xxx." :thumb:

LMAO.
Time to find some friends in a frat.
Next semester hopefully adictedtopoker is a brother and willl let me in :thumb:

[SassySRT]

not bragging... jsut friendly... when they talk and she's like "so what did you do last night?"
"oh, i went out with (girl's name.) we did xxx at xxx for xxx. then i xxx in her xxx until she xxx like a xxx. i never xxx as much as xxx." :thumb:



But did you xxx while she xxx your xxx?

[svt2srt4]

not bragging... jsut friendly... when they talk and she's like "so what did you do last night?"
"oh, i went out with (girl's name.) we did xxx at xxx for xxx. then i xxx in her xxx until she xxx like a xxx. i never xxx as much as xxx." :thumb:
oh..well that should work....i was refering to him coming out of nowhere explaining it but if she ask then that should be cool....or you can just find a lady friend that is willing to help you out and have her coincedently meet the lady friend as lady friend hangs all over you....believe me it works, i tired it in colorado i liked this chic and i let her know it and she was like so what untill she saw me come out of her roomates room zipping up pants then next day i was coming out of her room zipping up pants...sweet:thumb:

[punkrokdood]

But did you xxx while she xxx your xxx?
you know me better than that.... of course i did :thumb:

[SassySRT]

you know me better than that.... of course i did :thumb:


Yes I do.... but I had to ask anyways. :lol:

[jhempstead]

Damn this sux. I love my wife to death and all that mushy bs, but sometimes I hate passing up those hot azz bishes...... DAMN! I guess I am not really looking for advice because I agree with prety much everything thats been said. I guess I am just venting. I think 24 was too young to get married. (26 now):gcry:

[svt2srt4]

Damn this sux. I love my wife to death and all that mushy bs, but sometimes I hate passing up those hot azz bishes...... DAMN! I guess I am not really looking for advice because I agree with prety much everything thats been said. I guess I am just venting. I think 24 was too young to get married. (26 now):gcry:
dude i got married at 23 i am now 29 i have cheated but i wouldnt suggest it...I regret it every day and im so glad to still have my wife. 20 min of playtime with another girl is not worth 2 years of marriage..

[SassySRT]

dude i got married at 23 i am now 29 i have cheated but i wouldnt suggest it...I regret it every day and im so glad to still have my wife. 20 min of playtime with another girl is not worth 2 years of marriage..

20 minutes? Damn she got ripped off. :lol:

[neonsohc]

Damn this sux. I love my wife to death and all that mushy bs, but sometimes I hate passing up those hot azz bishes...... DAMN! I guess I am not really looking for advice because I agree with prety much everything thats been said. I guess I am just venting. I think 24 was too young to get married. (26 now):gcry:

you know what you need to do. just get really fat. like eat a whole carton of ice cream. and all these hot girls wont want to talk to you anymore.

[punkrokdood]

20 minutes? Damn she got ripped off. :lol:
:bs:

she got lucky

[el_jefe]

20 minutes? Damn she got ripped off:lol: :bs:

she got lucky


Hell yeah. Most girls get booted outta bed after I get mine. That gives 'em about 35 seconds of fun time before they need to get dressed and I am asleep. :thumb:

[poorwboy]

I've been there man, the above statement in girl talk (ages 18-22) means she wants to bang other guys. Other excuses that mean this same thing are: "I want to find myself", "We're too serious", "I think we need a break", "I need more space". If she comes back, that's great, but I wouldn't put your life on hold. Get back in the game.

As for cheating, you have to answer one question before you get married, "Is this the person the one I want to devote myself to for the rest of my life?". If the answer is no, then don't get married and play the field. If you're considering cheating, it's alot easier to be honest, get a divorce and go your separate ways than your wife finding out and draining your bank account, torching your car and chopping off your manhood. :ftard:
Amen , that says it all.:thumb: